Grandpa Boatright intruduced Asher to this little number. Apparently
it's funny when mom does it too!
Asher did an amazing thing last week... yep... gave up his binky! It was really odd actually. One morning after his bath he was being very cranky. I went and found his binky and tried to hand it to him. He simply kept saying "done, done" and refused to even hold it. He took it with him to naptime but wouldn't put it in his mouth. Well, actually, that day he never really napped... he just played in his room for half hour-45 minute increments, came out of his room, got in trouble, then back to goofing off again. That night, he still wouldn't take his binky. Even while crying at night he just kept saying "done" whenever I tried to give it to him. We figured we'd take the opportunity to hide all the binkies!
A friend suggested he might have had an ear infection and that it hurt to suck. I don't know what exactly happened, but he's on the upside of his cough now and goes to sleep without the binky! He asked for it once today so I just told him "You said you were done so all the binkies went bye-bye." and he seemed content with that answer :) So yay!!! I'm so glad it wasn't a super drawn out battle or source of contention. Cole doesn't seem to be near as attached to his so I'm hoping we can raise 2 kids without power struggles over binkies at least!
On another note, I had my last Dr's appt for a while to just check a couple things out with my recovery. I've had a really sharp pain on the right side of my incision on the inside. It feels like a strained muscle does and it gets worse when I do a lot of lifting or working out. My Dr felt the incision and said it was the material they use to close up everything. I guess it's a really strong suture on the right that is in more of a knot that the rest and it takes about 3 months for it to dissolve. Where the knot is can dissolve more slowly and that's probably what's causing the pain. He said I should be painless within a month or so and to just take it easy until it doesn't hurt anymore. I wasn't really worried, just annoyed that I can't work harder to get into shape again. But that's what this summer will be for... hopefully lots of jogging to the park with the kids and swimming in grandma's pool!!
Lastly, Cole is starting to chuckle a bit! Kristi was watching the kids while I was at the Dr's today, and she said her and her daughter really got Cole laughing! I was sad to miss it but am really excited to hear it soon. He's so cheerful (as long as he's not tired or hungry) and so content most of the time. We get lots of smiles and he's becoming slightly more predictable... my kids are polar opposites! But so far, Asher and Cole seem to really love each other... as much as babies can. Cole just watches Asher run around and Asher loves to help me get Cole up after naps. Asher will go running to Cole whenever he cries and will even put his binky in when he's tired. It's so cute to see Asher take toys to Cole and just say his name, even if it is way too close to his face :) I'm glad to have these boys and really look forward to the fun times ahead.
Our first Thanksgiving with little mister Cole... it was pretty good! We're always the last ones to leave mom and dad's no matter what occasion, and true to form, we stayed from about noon until 7pm :) Hopefully they don't mind our constant intrusion!
It was a good Thanksgiving. So much has been going on in both of our lives that it was nice to have a day to just sit back and do nothing in particular - besides changing diapers and feeding kids at least. I'm feeling so tired today that I'm sure I'm not portraying what a blessed time it was. Overall, the weeks leading up to Thanksgiving have been nothing but going from one even to the next, taking care of one task and running to the store for something... I feel like since we moved in I haven't had an hour to just sit!! I'm either exhausted and trying to recoup my energy or taking care of mailing something or cleaning more bottles. I would like to say that things might slow down but that's never true this time of year. At least we both love Christmas so hopefully the busyness will be fun!
I've got a few church events coming up, which means planning and arranging details this Sunday, Wednesday, Friday and then of course the Wreath making on Saturday. Mark is playing at the Calvary Chapel Coffee Shop tomorrow, then leading worship next week which means his evenings are full and he'll be gone Thursday evening. Then, cookie exchange, Armstrong Family get-together and other yet-to-be-planned activities... I sure hope I have some down time in January! But, I will probably be doing a photo shoot with a few models and makeup artists then so I'll be busy planning that. I'd love to be able to buy the studio equipment to do it here but so far, I'm about $1000 short... yeah, I've got a bit more to save. But, I also have some photo shoot ideas with some interested people and I might be able to make it happen by mid-January so I'll be attempting to arrange getting that taken care of which also involves clearing out the garage and finally unpacking everything... I'm tired just writing all this! But I'm grateful to be busy (most days) and hope that this whole mother-of-two things gets a bit less hectic... Cole isn't quite the scheduled eater and sleeper that Asher was... but he smiles a TON so it mostly makes up for it!
Well, enough about busyness, here are a couple cute photos... I love the one of all the boys... Mark watching Asher watching Cole watching his hand! I don't know why they always look kinda grainy when I upload them... ugh, another day's work! Stay tuned for more updates... hopefully within a couple weeks at least :-)
I cannot believe how big Asher is getting. He's learning new words every day - although many of them sound like "bee" or "bah," many other words are getting more accurate :) Like car, Cole, baby, eat, food... how come I can never think of all of them while I am writing!! Anyway, he's becoming such his own person. From the way he likes to eat his food without being watched, to the way he likes to take off his socks and pick between his toes (one by one, one after the other - it's pretty hilarious)!
He can turn doorknobs and lately, when I start fixing a bottle for Cole, Asher will run to Cole's room and go right in... he loves to help with everything! He also loves to help push everything... the stroller, the shopping cart, the broom and mop, anything that can go! And he loves going. Whenever I put on a sweatshirt or socks he asks if we're going. He runs through the house and the yard and it's the funniest thing ever - mainly b/c he swings his left arm really hard but his right arm just kinda hangs out, up in the air barely swinging - he might not have inherited my athleticism. He's really good at telling you what he wants and he's pretty patient if you let him know it's on the way... like his toast this afternoon. He didn't even want fruit snacks, he wanted a 2nd piece of toast... he kept crying "toe, toe?" But once I told him I was making it, he just sat there waiting for it without a peep.
Not to say he doesn't have his moments, b/c oh boy, he has plenty!! But he's been getting a lot of teeth too so we try to cut him some slack without compromising on what rules are a must. This morning while he was screaming I noticed that he actually has one of his 2 year molars! Whoa! I knew he was getting his last 2 bottom teeth and that his top kanines had just broken but I was not even looking for molars... poor kid. He loves the new place though and already seems to know what happens where. I'm always amazed at the things he learns without me teaching him - I feel like Mark and I are always laughing about the things he figures out! He also recently started calling me "mom" sometimes instead of mama. If he can't see where I'm at he just shouts "MOM, MOM" until he finds me. He also just LOVES little Cole... it's so cute to see him look at his brother and just smile. We love these boys, even though they are a handful!
Well, here's a photo of him in the new backyard... he's growing up so fast!
It's been a while since I took my camera out. Life with 2 kids is busy enough, much less life with 2 small kids (including a 2 month old) and moving into another home and only having 1 car! Luckily, we had TONS of help and it has not been as bad as we thought. We absolutely love the new place... it feels just like home... and what's even better, Asher seems to love it too and has had no trouble adjusting to sleeping here! What a blessing.
Well, I decided to take some photos of Cole during Asher's nap... enjoy! Hopefully I'll get some pics of the new place once we've had a chance to pack away some of the boxes :-)

